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![]() Loving RelationshipsMost of us want to have close relationships with people who make us feel loved and appreciated, yet some of us are blessed with an abundance of wonderful friends and family, and others are not. Why? A couple of reasons are beyond your control: the size of your community, and second, the size of your family. But, with all things being equal, there is a third reason which we tend to overlook: our choices. Some of us stay in bad relationships with others out of habit. Others because the relationships fill a void. There are some who are in relationships because of family obligations or out of guilt. Those reasons aside, the best relationships are based on sharing the highest ideals and values, having common interests and/or goals. Even under the best of circumstances, a few relationships can become strained and difficult to deal with. If, over a long period of time, the situation does not improve, it may be time to take a look at the cause and decide whether that relationship can be saved, or if both parties are better off letting go and moving on. The Behavior of a Worthwhile FriendWhat is a quality friendship? The biggest difference between a valuable friend and one who isn't can be answered by a simple question: does this individual truly care about your well-being and make a practice of showing it? Behavior may be the best way to answer this question. Think back to situations that were similar to those listed below and compare behavior. Situation: You are facing issues that you are having a hard time dealing with and confide in a friend. A True Friend Will
A Fair-Weather Friend Will
Situation: Something bad has happened to you and you call a friend for moral support. A True Friend Will
A Fair-Weather Friend Will
Situation: You share something important that is very personal A True Friend Will
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Situation: You unintentionally hurt your friend's feelings A True Friend Will
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Situation: You share something that you've done that you regret A True Friend Will
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Situation: Something exciting has happened and you call a friend to share your good news. A True Friend Will
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Situation: A vicious rumor about you is being spread A True Friend Will
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High-Quality Relationship ReviewTo enjoy high-quality relationships, it is important that you are discerning when selecting who is going to be included in your inner circle. Not all people have your best interests at heart or even if they do, some don't have the ability to be a good friend to you. It's up to you who joins or leaves your inner circle. It's a normal part of everyone's journey to run into bumps in the road. Sometimes we are able to repair relationships and sometimes we aren't. But it is always wise to let go of relationships when they are no longer beneficial to either party Qualities to Look for in a FriendGood friends should be: appreciative, available, calm, caring, comforting, compassionate, considerate, encouraging, fair, faithful, forgiving, genuine, generous, grateful, helpful, honest, humble, kind, a good listener, loyal, non-judgmental, pleasant, polite, positive, reliable, respectful, sincere, strong, supportive, sympathetic, thoughtful, trustworthy, warm and welcoming. In closing, it's important to surround yourself with loving friends and family. And in return, be there for them, always showing your loved ones how much they mean to you. |
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